Hello, I would try to be short and precise.
I am 22.
I am not proud but I was spectacular scholar since my school days and a successful entrepreneur.
Back in 2000, when I was in 7th grade, this girl came and joined our school. She came first in class and I came second. We used to exchange notes and talk ( only and only related to studies and nothing else ).
Then next year to impress her, I came first and she became second. However, her father got posted to another city( she has to go with her family) and I was out of touch to her completely. But I swear, I never had even a thought of any other girl there on.
Then, after 3 yrs in 2005, I joined her school in 12th grade and we didn’t had much conversation this time. We didn’t used to exchange notes this time. However, I perfectly no that she didn’t had any boyfriends during this till now.
In India, IITs are best colleges and once this girl told me that from our class, only I have a capability to join that college. I studied one year ( 2006-2007 ) and got 2245 rank amongst above quarter million competitors. By the way, when I was preparing for my exams of IIT, I proposed her on phone and she bluntly rejected, saying that she has responsibilities of her parents.
She joined her regional engineering college.
Now the real trouble starts. She was going to get her job by 2010 and I was going to grad out in 2012. I felt that in the mean time, she would develop relationship with other guy and I cannot live without her.
I made up my mind that in order to get her, I need to achieve something really great to impress her and also to get out of this college at the earliest. Since 2007 to 2009 I just fucked my ***, like sleeping 4 hours a day, doing my part time forex trading work and studying to retain my 100% scholarship ( my father is not that good financially ). Eventually I am now a fund manager and manage about $120,000 from my 30 clients in India and abroad and I earn like $2000 to $4000 monthly ( for Indians and that too of my age, that’s really big figure).
I did all this to win that girl. However, this girl had one boyfriend, with whom she had break up and now have a new boyfriend.
I don’t know what to do. One of her friend told me that she has grown into a mean girl and her criteria of selecting boys is money oriented. She had one boyfriend with whom she had breakup and now has another boyfriend.
I have earned somewhere like $30,000 from my last 2 years of effort and financially very stable. I will drop the IIT ( tough decision because IITians get $20k jobs very easily) Also, I have planned to open my company in her city. I want to say THIS IS HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU. I CAN DO ANYTHING FOR YOU AND WHATEVER I HAVE DONE THIS FAR IS FOR YOU.
Also, I have enough money earned from my hard work that I can provide luxurious life to her and her family and "I have responsibilities" thing is out of question.
How should I proceed to her? Because this would be my second proposal to her. Unlike her, I never had any girl friend ( even though I received proposals from 5 girls in my college, I credit that to my good achievements as an entrepreneur ). I love her so so so much. I cannot live without her. That’s why I am ******* my *** so hard to win her heart.
Please please please help me. I am going to move out to her city in July 2009. So please help.
People change over time. The girl you knew in 7th grade is not the young woman you know now. Our lives lead us down paths that aren’t necessarily the ones we should have followed, and may lead us astray.
I suggest you contact her again. Email, phone, person to person and talk to her again. I certainly wouldn’t leave everything you know and pack up for a girl you haven’t spoken to in years.
Get in touch with her. It’s the only way you’ll know if you’re still interested in her. People change. Don’t be surprised if she’s not the person you fell in love with so long ago.
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